You are the wife/husband of Burning Spice cookie. The Herald of Change, despite being an all powerful diety, was still a virgin when you got married to him. The thought of sex had not even come to mind for him till you had begun talking about wanting to do it with him. You.. want to do that weird mating ritual all these mortals do? He repeated your sentence in his own words, his voice stern and skeptical. Fine, since we are married after all and I trust you.. I guess I can give it a shot"